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  • Massive Art Installation Depicts Story Of American Nonviolence

    Massive Art Installation Depicts Story Of American Nonviolence

    By Audrey Lutz

    Ms. Switzer and her History of Nonviolence class made an outstanding art installation depicting a visual timeline of nonviolent movements in American history. The project is the culmination of many years of preparation, research, and development. 

    After involving Ms. Story, an upper school art teacher, they decided to make a timeline following events through history. We were standing in front of the artwork when we spoke and she said,  “If I were to go back 20 years when I first started teaching about non-violence I would not have known half of what is up here.”

    Each student made individual tiles that show non-violent activists and researched them to gain a better understanding of who they are and how they affected history. I was able to speak with Leah Cox about her involvement with this project. “I was a student in the class, so I helped with brainstorming and making the background,” she said. “If you look at the board, on the far right, there is a collage of non-violent organizations and above it there are doves. I made both of those.” 

    Ms. Switzer said that the installation is a way “of visualizing all of the interconnected complexity of non-violence in American history.” Everything is connected one way or another, and this installment shows all of the historical branches. 

    As we started the interview Ms. Switzer implied that “Non-violence isn’t just about creating peace and justice, it’s creating conditions where violence is less likely.” This art is meant to show that peace is possible and that people are willing to risk their lives to stand up and say, they want a better society. 

    There are 14 different non-violent movements that are represented on the board, but the art piece starts with the Indigenous people in the United States. “What my students discovered is that from a very early point, Indigenous people in the United States had non-violent peacemaking kinds of cultural technologies, and a lot of the non-violence that evolved came from seeing the way the Indigenous people resolve conflict,” said Ms. Switzer. 

    The Indigenous people are the true roots of America and the first people to teach non-violence. “Many people think that the Indigenous people were just bows and arrows, but they had such a complex life,” said Ms. Switzer. 

    Next, we move on to the Quakers and Anabaptists. “The historic peace churches (the Quakers and Anabaptists) came to the United States to escape persecution.” The Quakers and Anabaptists lit the fire for the anti-slavery movement. “They believed that there is a god and somehow that god is present in all people, so then anytime you’re unjust or violent to another person, you’re being unjust and violent to god. So that sort of theological premise motivated them to confront slavery first.”

    Everything is connected in history and this board is illustrating that. “So we have this early women’s movement that starts, and those same women became the leaders of the suffrage movement.” Ms. Switzer then shows me how the branches connect everything together. 

    As we keep moving down the boards we are introduced to the pre-civil rights which of course leads us to the all mighty civil-rights movement. They tried to include as much as they could, but the board can only hold so much. The board includes the majority of the 50s, 60s, and 70s. 

    Finally, we come to the final board with the Black Lives Matter movement “as the most recent manifestation,” with its focus on anti-racism. “We have anti-racism, kind of having these moments of surging and then receding and then surging over time, but always there.” 

    People have always been fighting against racism in history. “A takeaway that one of my students realized is that since the 1600s, there have been people, white people standing against racism, all the way to the current time. And since 1730-1740 every year someone has been born in America who has fought against racism.”

    At the end of the final board, there are many pieces of art. “We have this collage of doves and it sort of represents the future for hope and peace,” Ms. Switzer said. There is a collage of different activists, and then finally  a mirror “because we wanted people to get to the end of the installation and say, well what can I do to make a more peaceful future?” 

    Under the mirror, it says “The Future of Nonviolence is You.”

    This project was a semester-long idea, yet the idea mainly came to fruition right around thanksgiving. As Ms. Switzer usually has a much bigger class she doesn’t do big projects like this one. This year she only had 9 students in her History of Nonviolence class, so Ms. Switzer asked them if they wanted to do something more creative than they normally couldn’t do with a greater number of students. “We talked to Ms. Story and we started brainstorming options. My students wanted to work together so we developed this idea, which was much more complicated than we were expecting and I didn’t know if we were going to finish.”

    They started making it right after fall break and only had until exams to finish. “Towards the end of the last 2 weeks of class, this project was all we did. The students came before school, after school, and during lunch. They spent so much time on this and it’s incredible.” Leah Cox, a student who worked on this project, said that “There were times when we would have to come during our free periods, and we would work together and collaborate throughout the whole process.”

    As the artwork started to finish they brought in Ms. Story again to take a look. “Once Ms. Story saw the project coming together she said that we needed to get this in front of other audiences.” Then came talk of where this outstanding project could go. They are considering the  Hartfield Jackson airport, which has a section where they display student work; the Center for Civil and Human Rights; and even the history center of Atlanta. “Right now the chief of the marketing department – Janie Beck- is working on finding out if this could be a traveling exhibition.”

    Ms. Switzer is so proud of this piece and it has only made her think of what she could do in the future. “I’ve been trying for years to know how to organize this incredibly complex history and the more I taught the more I realized that it’s not just the history of non-violence but the histories of non-violence, and I’ve always struggled to make sense of it all visually. And the fact that they were able to create a way of visualizing it is amazing, not only to me but to them and future students.”

    This project was huge, not only for Lovett but for the future of Ms. Switzer’s class. This artwork alone holds so many important people, dates, and moments in history that are not talked about in the history books. 

    The students had to work so incredibly hard to get this project completed and it brought them closer together. “I think that this bonded my class,” she said. “We would see one another so much during the day that our close proximity to each other almost forced us to get closer.”

    This artwork will be displayed in the art gallery hall until the end of February. After that, no one is truly sure where it will end up but, hopefully, wherever it goes it will inspire people. “We’re trying to create a better world,” Leah said.

  • Games Bring Hope For Success With The Subjunctive

    Games Bring Hope For Success With The Subjunctive

    By Beza Kifle

    Game days are the best. We have all played Kahoot, Jeopardy, or board games for review, and they’re a nice change of pace from the traditional work that we have to do.

    In Sra. Mitchell’s Honors Spanish III Class, students just learned about the subjunctive tense, a tense that Sra. Mitchell says is not present in English. “The subjunctive tense is a tense that we use a lot,” she explained to me. “As a native, I used the subjunctive tense more than any other tense.” 

    The subjunctive tense is a tense that has to do with things that you wish or hope will happen.  “It’s part of my culture,” Sra. Mitchell says. “This is how we live every day – waiting and hoping for something good.”

    Students learned about sentences in the subjunctive that have noun clauses and subjunctive clauses. Sra. Mitchell showed her student a formula, which helps them correctly write the sentences. The keyword in the sentence is the word in the middle, “que”, which lets you know that the verb in the subjunctive clause should be conjugated in the subjunctive tense. There are other triggers, too. There are also 9 rules for the tense. “It’s very difficult to learn because there are 9 rules. It has more rules than any other tense,” Sra. Mitchell told me.

    Knowing that this tense would be difficult for students to understand, Sra. Mitchell decided to have her students create games in order to help them learn and understand the subjunctive tense better. “For me, this year was the first year that I tried games, and it was extremely important because through playing you can learn,” Sra. Mitchell said. 

    According to her, students tend to have trouble with this tense, probably because we don’t have one like it in English. “We need to start teaching students at Spanish 2 because they need to use it a lot at AP. They’ll really know how to speak Spanish if they learn the subjunctive,” Sra. Mitchell told me.

    The games aren’t only helpful for students to learn the subjunctive in the future, but also for lesson four, which is when students will learn how to use the subjunctive with adjective clauses. “Games can help us to recycle the information that we learned previously in lesson 3,” Sra. Mitchell explained.

    Students split up into groups and began designing the perfect game to help them learn and understand the subjunctive. There was Jepordary, Candy Crush, and other board games. Sra Mitchell was proud of her students’ effort saying, “I saw all of my students put in a lot of time and effort to see how they can put the 9 rules into one game.”

  • Lily Purcelli Enjoys the Freedom of Art

    Lily Purcelli Enjoys the Freedom of Art

    By Beza Kifle

    Imagine having near-total freedom to explore in your classes. In Honors Art, artists don’t have to imagine because they are able to do pretty much “whatever they want,” according to senior Lily Puricelli says. “That’s one of my favorite things about the class, and the fact that we also don’t have to use a specific type of media,” she added.

    Lily has been doing art for most of her life. “I did art all throughout lower school. At Lovett, I started it in 7th grade,” Lily told me. She took Foundations of Art in 8th grade, so she was able to choose whatever visual arts courses she wanted in Upper School. During quarantine, which was during 10th grade for her, she told me that she started being more focused on it. “I just like to do it for fun. It’s a way to release stress,” Lily said.

    Lily said that she has taken printmaking, drawing, painting, and ceramics. I, of course, asked her for her opinions on the classes.“My favorite was definitely painting because I feel like with drawing, you don’t get to use colors much. It’s just harder for me in general. And with ceramics, I’m just not very good at it,” she told me. Lily showed me some of her pieces, and she said that the colors made them some of her favorites.

    When I asked Lily about what she did last semester in the class, she told me that she’s only in Honors Art for this semester.“ Last semester, she was in printmaking. This semester, Lily is focusing on family portraiture and portraiture in general. “I’m looking at how it exposes social values of different time periods,” she explained.

    Specifically, Lily has done a piece of a “nuclear family” of the 70’s, and she made it look like a 70’s album cover. She told that she was going to do a piece that shows the power of men in business in the 70’s.

    As someone who isn’t very good at art, I asked Lily where she gets her inspiration from. “I look at Pinterest a lot,” she told me, “but I also just do whatever I want.” 

    The joys of freedom.

  • Design and Production: What Goes On in the Background of Our Plays?

    Design and Production: What Goes On in the Background of Our Plays?

    By Gisella Brok

    On the weekend of February 11th, Lovett showcased this year’s spring musical, Willy Wonka! The theater was transformed into a chocolate factory filled with oompa loompas and sweet treats, and the actors made the play come alive. 

    But of course, none of this would have been possible without our incredible production team. 

    Before the play was even announced to anyone else, Mr. Decker and Mr. Forlines had met up to come up with ideas and share their visions of what the play should look like. Then, Mr. Forlines designed the sets based on of these conversations. 

    Because they were finally able to present a major play, Mr. Decker decided that he wanted an ensemble-focused play, and Willy Wonka fit that perfectly. For this musical, they based it on the movie, and the attention to detail was fascinating. They decided that the set outside of the factory would be set in the modern day with drab colors while inside the factory would feel more vibrant with old technology. They also had to consider how they would go about each depicting kid’s outcome. Almost everybody in the audience walked into the play knowing what would happen to each kid, but they had no idea how it would be carried out, and that’s what the surprise had to be.

    After coming up with how the play would be set up, the real work began. The building didn’t start until winter break ended, but thankfully, everything went smoothly. According to Ms. McCluskey, the Assistant Director of Fine Arts, there wasn’t anything that couldn’t be carried out, and it was fortunate that the “set pieces were easy to construct” so that they could get them early on. She also explained that “how stuff happens is what evolves.” So, for example, how they would get Augustus Gloop (played by Slater Nalley) across the stage changed from scooting on the floor to being dragged on a towel to being carried in a cart. 

    Even though it went smoothly, it still took a lot of effort. The five stage managers had to be at every single rehearsal, and each day they needed to take notes about props or costume ideas which went to the rest of the production team. 

    Thankfully, the students taking the Design and Production classes, with the exception of design craft, leant a helping hand. Since there are different categories of classes, they work on things that relate to their classes. For example, the students in stagecraft are the builders. Sophie Hatfield, a freshman who was a stage manager for the play, is in the D&P Tech class, meaning that she’s involved with lighting and the more technical side of the play. In their class, their work is “either project based or working on a production.” 

    Even though it seems like the work is separated into different groups, Sophie mentioned that “whatever needs to be done will be done.” Ms. McCluskey also talked about the fact that “very rarely are [the groups] compartmentalized,” and they are more focused on the team aspect. Sometimes, the actors even had to help with some things such as set changes. Even though the adults have specific focus areas, they also help each other and the students with other jobs. 

    Even with all of this help, there are still some challenges to being part of the production team. 

    For the adults, the most challenging part is deciding how to get set pieces on and off stage. Nowadays, it’s not that common to just do a fade to black and then scene change, and instead it usually happens in front of the audience (“like a dance” as Ms. McCluskey would say). She also mentioned how it’s a “fun challenge” because they want it to feel like part of the play. Luckily, they decided that making the oompa loompas do the scene changes was the best decision, and it definitely felt like part of the play! 

    For the students, it really “depends what you’re doing.” For Sophie, even though it was stressful at first, knowing what she was doing helped things run smoothly. 

    When I asked Sophie if the end was super emotional, she said “Oh yeah” and that there are “tears everywhere.” Because the tech and cast became very close, it was hard to say goodbye (even if they weren’t leaving the school). They only had a month and a half to get the show running, so they were there until 6:30 on school nights and weekends. It was definitely a commitment, but they “wouldn’t sign up if they didn’t love it.” 

    So what now? Well, they just go straight to their next play, which will be “Sense and Sensibility” by Jane Austen. For the few weeks they have between the two productions, the classes do personal projects. And since the upcoming play is in the blackbox theater, which is a smaller room, they have more time to work on these projects. 

    Now that you know what goes on behind the scenes, make sure to go support our team on April 21-23 for the next play!

  • Rene Descartes Spotted Roaming Third Floor

    Rene Descartes Spotted Roaming Third Floor

    By Keya Nijhawan

    On the last day of the shortest month of the year, Lovett was blessed with a visit from René Descartes. This was puzzling, given that Descartes, who, according to the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, was a “creative mathematician of the first order, an important scientific thinker, and an original metaphysician,” lived from 1596–1650.  

    Turns out the visitor who famously said “I think, therefore I am” was not actually Rene Descartes, no matter how much he may have thought he was. Instead, it was Mr. Butler (Aka. Mathman). Makes sense, since there have been other times that he has turned math class into history class. I was one of many who were blessed to have with “Mr. Descartes” as a math teacher on February 28th in place of our favorite math teacher. 

    Mathman told us about how we could all thank Descartes for bringing geometry and algebra together, and for confirming that we do exist and are not just in a bad dream. We also learned that during this time one had to follow the rules or die and that it was dangerous to promote ideas that went against the teachings of the church. 

    As interesting as all this was, for me, the gist of the lesson was that lovely Mr. Descartes, may, with his complicated math ideas, be the reason for my bad grade all these centuries later. 

  • The Story Food Tells

    The Story Food Tells

    By Gisella Brok

    For each heritage or history month, one of the ways that Lovett teaches their students is through cuisine. So, to investigate the importance of cuisine, I talked to one teacher from each of the languages taught here at Lovett. 

    Interestingly enough, each language class incorporates food into the lessons.

    For Latin, you might think that because the language is no longer spoken, cuisine wouldn’t be so important to learn about, but actually there is an ancient Roman cookbook that still exists today. Before the pandemic at her previous school, Ms. Mellican would have a unit centered around Roman food, and she would “like a chance to do that here.”

    In Señora Mitchell’s Spanish class, she will be showing the Disney movie Encanto and bringing in homemade arepas. This Colombian delicacy is one she would eat almost every day, and now she is passing the recipe to her son (like a generational tradition) and introducing it to her students. 

    In Ms. Hu’s 10th grade Chinese class, they have a unit about food where they learn about the four major categories of food, pick their favorite category, and either go to a restaurant and order the dish in Chinese or make their own dish. Then, they report back what they learned.

    In Dr. Norwood’s French class, she is trying to plan something with the cafe, and possibly making crepes with her class. In the past, her students would prepare food from a region that they are learning about. She’s “really sad they can’t do this as much” because of the pandemic, but last year they were able to do this outside!

    After learning about food within classes, I asked the big question: Why is cuisine so important?

    For the Romans, both cuisine and dining were extremely important because the people really loved to eat. Among the “elite” Romans, they felt that throwing dinner parties was a way to entertain their guests and that they had to “one up” each other when doing it. According to Ms. Mellican, every house had a dining room and if they were too full, they would go to the vomitorium (yes, that is exactly how it sounds) and then immediately go right back to their feast. In the markets, there were many bakery stands, places to sample food, and even murals of the food that they were selling. Even though this is an ancient society, Ms. Mellican points out that aspects of it are still seen today like how the Italians focus on having family meals. Learning about food and cuisine also “brings life to the people” and makes students realize that these ancient people were people just like us. 

    Within the many Spanish speaking countries, “everything is surrounded by food,” Sra. Mitchell says. It connects members of the family. Sra. Mitchell showed me a “perfect example” of this, which is an art piece of La Tamalada, and it depicts a family gathered together to make tamales and bonding through making food together. Within the culture, there are celebrations and gatherings with families centered around food, and because they “love to eat well,” families can come together and “enjoy being together” with some tasty foods. “Food is a reflection of culture and tradition,” Sra. Mitchell explains, and she makes sure to carry this tradition by passing down her own recipes to her son. 

    There is a famous Chinese saying: “Mín yi shí wéi tian.” This directly translates to “people regard food as heaven.” From this, it’s obvious that cuisine holds a significant spot within the culture and everyday life. Food is the “most important thing in China,” Ms. Hu explains, and it’s involved in everything from funerals to parties to business meetings. With many dishes, there is symbolism or meaning behind it. For example, noodles are symbols of longevity, and fish is a symbol of abundance. Because of this, it’s very common to eat fish on Lunar New Year.

    For the French, it’s a tradition to take time to enjoy a meal and to always use quality ingredients. There’s a lot of time that goes into both preparing and enjoying the meal, and “they put a big importance on not rushing a meal,” Dr. Norwood says. It’s also important to them where specifically the ingredients come from. For example, the Normandy region makes good dairy products, so many dairy ingredients might come from there. Food also “brings people together” and is a great way to investigate a culture (plus, it’s a chance to taste something new). 

    After figuring out the importance of cuisine, I thought it would be intriguing to explore some of the recipes, and the one I chose to make were the Colombian arepas that Ms. Mitchell brought up. I had never made them before, so trying to make something new was a fun and interesting experience. It didn’t take much time, so if you’re interested, try it out! They were tasty, and I’d like to make them again soon. 

    Of course, this isn’t the only food that can be made. “Every dish is unique,” Ms. Hu says, so there won’t just be one dish that goes for everyone who speaks the language. Despite this, the teachers and I were able to brainstorm popular dishes.

    While the dishes may not be so popular today, there were quite a few Roman dishes such as a beef stew called Copadia, and the website that Ms. Mellican recommended, https://pass-the-garum.blogspot.com/, has many of the other dishes that were common during that period of time. 

    Ms. Mitchell and I brainstormed some foods that are similar between each country. There are rice dishes like arroz con leche, variations of arepas, and types of empanadas. 

    There are 8 categories of Chinese cuisine, and four of the main ones are Cantonese, Sichuan (which incorporates the use of three peppers), Huaiyang (which has sweet and salty dishes seen at the national banquet), and Shandong (which is mostly seafood since that region is close to the sea). One dish that you can try out is ma yi shang shu, which is a Sichuan dish, and the name actually means “ants climbing a tree.” Some other ones are gan chao niu he, a beef stir fry dish, or lazi ji, a Sichuan chicken dish. 

    One of the main foods that Dr. Norwood and I spoke about was crepes. One dish that has a history is a Canadian meat pie, because when the French settled there, they were just trying to survive the cold, so they came up with the meat pie.

    I can’t wait to cook more recipes that I’ve heard about from the other teachers, and I encourage you to expand your cooking repertoire. We’re not trying to survive the cold here in Atlanta, but it might just be chilly enough to try out the meat pie.

  • Over the Moon for the Lunar New Year

    Over the Moon for the Lunar New Year

    By Alexis Dalton

    February 2 marked the start of a Lunar New Year! According to Wikipedia, Lunar New Year is the beginning of a calendar year whose months are Moon cycles, and it is based on the lunar calendar or lunisolar calendar. Though it is acknowledged around the world, the Lunar New Year is primarily celebrated in countries within East and Southeast Asia. 

    The Lunar New Year signifies putting the past behind us and looking forward to a fresh start. “We want to send away all the bad things,” Xiaohua Yang, professor and director of the China Business Studies Initiative at the University of San Francisco, told USA TODAY. 

    In the astrological system based on the lunar calendar (known as the Chinese zodiac), each year corresponds with one of twelve animals. In order, the animals are the rat, ox, tiger, rabbit, dragon, snake, horse, goat, monkey, rooster, dog, and pig. Some people believe that their horoscope, personality, and love compatibility are closely related to their Chinese zodiac sign, which is decided based on their birth year.

    For example, according to the Chinese horoscope, someone born in 2004 (year of the monkey) is likely to be mischievous, curious, witty, and intelligent. Check the end of this article to see what your Chinese zodiac says about you.

    As you might have seen on the wall in front of a Chinese classroom, on the whiteboard at the café, or even on Snapchat filters, this lunar year is the year of the tiger. 

    A tiger can be seen as an uplifting animal that gives people hope. It is usually associated with bravery, courage, and strength, which is something we all need starting yet another year with COVID-19 still around.

    Lovett sophomore and Chinese student Natalie Harris told me about some of her Lunar New years traditions from when she lived in Singapore. “A lot of people eat fish as well as dumplings and noodles,” she told me. “I love to make pineapple tarts.” Gifting pineapple tarts to friends and loved ones is a gesture aimed to bring prosperity for the coming year.

    Natalie also told me about how the origin of Lunar New Year has many legends and stories, including the tale of a monster named Nian. Every 365 days, Nian would come out of hiding to hunt people and livestock and eat their crops. According to Britannica, because Nian feared the color red, loud noises, and fire, red paper decorations were pasted to doors, lanterns were burned all night, and firecrackers were lit to frighten the beast away. Because of this legend, families still to this day decorate with red, burn lanterns, and light firecrackers.

    With the Lunar New Year passed, it’s time to embrace 2022. I wish you a happy New Year and good health. 

    Horoscope guide:

    Rat (…1996, 2008, 2020…): quick-witted, resourceful, versatile, kind.

    Ox (…1997, 2009, 2021…): diligent, dependable, strong, determined.

    Tiger (…1998, 2010, 2022…): quick-witted, resourceful, versatile, kind.

    Rabbit (…1999, 2011, 2023 …): quiet, elegant, kind, responsible.

    Dragon (…2000, 2012, 2024 …): confident, intelligent, enthusiastic.

    Snake (…2001, 2013, 2025 …): enigmatic, intelligent, wise.

    Horse (… 2002, 2014, 2026 …): animated, active, energetic.

    Goat (…2003, 2015, 2027 …): calm, gentle, sympathetic.

    Monkey (…2004, 2016, 2028 …): sharp, smart, curious.

    Rooster (…2005, 2017, 2029 …): observant, hardworking, courageous.

    Dog (…2006, 2018, 2030 …): lovely, honest, prudent.

    Pig (…2007, 2019, 2031 …): compassionate, generous, diligent.

  • V-Day Special: Digging Into Deal-Breakers

    V-Day Special: Digging Into Deal-Breakers

    By Gisella Brok

    In a relationship, it makes sense that everybody will have things that they like and don’t like, but at what point is our pickiness more important than natural feelings?  And when does it perhaps get in the way of a perfectly imperfect relationship?

    In the yearly Valentine’s Day survey, Lovett students were given some scenarios and asked to decide whether or not that would be a dealbreaker for them. The first one said that they’re perfect but they forget about your birthday. 54.8% of the students said that this wouldn’t be a problem for them. Next, they were given the scenario that the person was perfect except for the fact that they have a history of cheating, and the response was 76.6% of students saying that this would be a dealbreaker. 87.9% of students agreed that if someone has really bad hygiene, then it would be a dealbreaker. Both being clingy and living far away, however, weren’t deal breakers for a large majority of Lovett students. 

    When looking at all of these scenarios, each one of them can be dug into. When it comes to remembering someone’s birthday, it’s really just a matter of how thoughtful the other person is (or if they can remember dates/important events). With cheating, the obvious thing behind this is the level of loyalty to the other person in the relationship (and it usually results in the breaking of trust within the relationship and a bad breakup). With someone’s hygiene, the reason behind it depends on the person because of the many reasons behind it. One of these reasons could be their mental state at the time. With a clingy partner, it’s mostly about setting boundaries and communication with the other person to make sure both people are comfortable and happy. In a long-distance relationship, usually it’s just due to unlucky circumstances, so it takes a lot of effort to make it work.

    When asked about long-distance relationships, senior Stewart Key said that she had been in two, but it’s “tough and not for everyone.” She explains how the most important part was making sure to get in contact and calling often, but “it’s hard for a long-distance relationship to be a serious one.”

    Figuring out what we want in a relationship and partner, there are many contributing factors to the decision. It starts off with what you hear from others, but then you figure it out from experience. For Stewart, “finding a partner isn’t different from finding a friend,” and when dealing with dealbreakers, it depends on what the dealbreaker is and if it’s really a big deal or not. 

    Sometimes, people ignore their deal-breakers to see if it will work out. On the survey, Lovett students were given the option to tell their own story of times they did this and if it worked out. For most, it didn’t go well, and someone advised to “trust your gut or you will suffer.” 

    Then again, there can be times when you’re involved in your own dealbreaker, like one person whose deal breaker was cheating and someone was cheating on their partner with them. For another student, the experience was so bad they needed therapy afterward. Also, dating someone who is your best friend may seem like a good idea at first (because you get to skip the awkward getting to know each other phase), but for one person, they “tried to have something” but it failed and they “didn’t talk for like a year.”

    However, for about 5 lucky people, it did work out! For example, one person had a crush who “accidentally flirted with a lot of people,” but they “really liked her,” so they ignored this. She ended up liking them (“and only [them]”) back, and now they have been dating for 4 months! One person’s crush “was into redheads, but it ended up working out,” so maybe some deal breakers aren’t that much of an issue.

    Of course, deal-breakers are not just what we don’t like about other people. The harder thing to consider is that there are aspects of ourselves that might be deal-breakers for others. 

    We asked students to share things about themselves that were potential obstacles. The top four responses were that they are clingy, annoying, overthinkers, or have a hard time building trust with others. However, this wasn’t the case for one humble student who wrote that they have none (because they’re “perfect, obviously”) and another student whose other person would “feel inferior.” Or maybe someone’s personal deal breaker is being “scared of birds” or driving “five below the speed limit (or the speed limit).” One student worried that their interpersonal skills might be a problem, because they have “a hard time having a conversation without referencing a movie, video game, or meme” to the point where “it’s problematic.”

    When looking at these responses, it made me wonder the reason behind why they think that about themselves. Was it other people that told them they have these qualities, was it a problem in past relationships, or is it a deal-breaker for other people along with themselves? 

    The final step of digging into deal-breakers was to dig into the word itself. The word includes the word “deal,” which raises the question: Do relationships require dealing with certain things? In reality, all relationships are about working together and making sure the people within the relationship are communicating and happy, even with their imperfections. Although there will be ups and downs, relationships are about both people, not just one person and what they like. 

    After digging into deal-breakers, I’m most drawn to what Stewart told me about the value of not being overly picky:  “It’s more fun to just date whoever you end up liking.”

  • V-Day Special: Senior Crushes, 2022

    V-Day Special: Senior Crushes, 2022

    By Alexis Dalton

    At some point in our lives, whether it was two weeks ago or two years ago, we have all had a crush on someone (don’t lie, I know you have). 

    When the OnLion newspaper staff sent out the annual Valentine’s Day survey, one responder  asked, “Who has senior crushes?” Well, clearly a lot of people, because we were not short on names of the high school’s senior crushes. Out of the 40+ names submitted, the most recurring names were Brennan Lummus, George Izard, and Margaret Hare.

    Brennan Lummus

    The first Senior Crush that I interviewed was Brennan Lummus. He was surprised that he was one of the three top-voted Senior Crushes. “I didn’t expect it because I’m kinda a nerd,” Brennan told me. “…but that’s ok.”

    He remembers having senior crushes himself, but he mostly would just put his siblings’ names in the survey to get them to be chosen.

    In his freetime, Brennan likes to play video games, and he’s in tech theater. When asked what his hobbies were he hesitated. “I’m trying to say something that’s not lame,” he said. He ended up circling back to theater.

    He runs cross country and used to do track. He might do track again this year, but because he’s doing the musical, he would start the season late.

    Brennan has two lap dogs, Buddy and Cooper, and one cat, Watson. “He’s such a little criminal,” he told me. “We moved down the street, but he still thinks that their (the new homeowner’s) house is our house, so he went into their house and bit their child.” Watson also has attacked the neighbor’s dog, so be sure to avoid Brennan’s neighborhood when walking your dog.

    His favorite food is the Waffle House patty melt, but he doesn’t have it often.

    1917 is his favorite movie. “It’s really good cinematography,” Brennan said. “From the perspective of someone who does theater, the shots are really beautiful.”

    Right now he’s been listening to a lot of Green Day. His current favorite song is Too Much Too Soon from the American Idiot album.

    I asked him to describe himself in three words, and he immediately said “dweeb.” I had only just met him, but I think the other two words he used, nice and smart, are more fitting.

    He’s looking to go to an engineering school like Clemson, Georgia Tech, Auburn, and Huntsville, “where the rocket center is.”

    To end the interview, I asked him which famous person he’d most like to go on a date with. Brennan thought for a second and then said Daisy Ridley (Rey in the Star Wars movies).

    George Izard

    When I asked George Izard, the top-voted Senior Crush of 2022, how it felt to be a senior crush, he laughed and said it was kinda weird. “I remember reading the OnLion as a freshman and some guys I knew were voted the senior crushes and it was so funny.” 

    In his free time, George, who describes himself as energetic, thoughtful, and optimistic, likes to learn music. He plays the drums in his rock band, plays the piano in the Jazz Band here at Lovett, and recently got an electric guitar for Christmas. However, he isn’t only a music man. He enjoys hunting and fishing with his friends, and in the warmer months with a little more daylight, he plays golf.

    I asked George if he remembered the names of any of his past senior crushes. He was taken aback to say the least. “You want me to give you the name of Lovett graduates?!” he laughed. After that, I made sure to not ask the other Senior Crushes for names.

    His favorite movie right now is Fight Club. “It’s always different cuz I’m not the kind of guy who likes to watch movies over and over again,” he told me. “So it’s always like whatever movie I’ve just recently watched.” He highly recommends Fight Club because it’s got a “crazy twist.”

    As for his favorite song, like his favorite movie, it’s ever-changing. His most recent favorite song is Melissa by The Allman Brothers.

    Of course, I had to ask the stereotypical senior question about college. George got in early decision to Virginia.

    Lastly, if he could go on a date with one famous person, it would be Matthew McConaughey (you know, the extremely handsome guy who drives the car in the Lincoln Commercials). 

    “You never said it was a romantic date,” George added.

    Margaret Hare

    Unlike her fellow elected Senior Crushes, I did not have a face-to-face interview with Margaret. She had her wisdom teeth removed which caused her to be out of school for a week. Usually, I would set up a Zoom call, but I assumed that a video call would not be fun for someone who just had mouth surgery. Though we aren’t supposed to do this, I sent her the questions via email to save her from an unnecessarily painful interview (sorry Mr. Newman). 

    When Margaret, who describes herself as caring, outgoing, and cheerful, found out she had been voted one of the top Senior Crushes, she too was surprised. “When I received your email I laughed out loud because I just got my wisdom teeth removed,” she said. “My face was so swollen I did not feel like I could be a senior crush.”

    When asked if she remembered any of her past senior crushes she said yes and, like many others, her senior crushes “were always football players.”

    If she is not at cheer practice, she enjoys spending time with friends by going out to eat, going to workout classes, and going on walks around her neighborhood.

    Margaret’s favorite food is nachos from Willy’s, but “they have to have the melted cheese not cheese dip.” 

    Her favorite movie was easily The Proposal (I don’t blame her… who doesn’t love Ryan Reynolds?), but she couldn’t pinpoint her favorite song. “I cannot listen to one song over and over again… [it] gets old.” But she did mention that she used to have an obsession with Shawn Mendes in middle school.

    As for college, she is looking at University of Georgia, University of Alabama, and Texas Christian University.

    Last, but not least, if she could go on a date with any celebrity, she would choose Chace Crawford (Nate in Gossip Girl). “I have wanted to meet him since I watched Gossip Girl in seventh grade,” she said.

    Now that you’ve gotten to know your Senior Crushes of 2022, it’s up to you to decide whether these seniors are still your “senior crushes.” I mean, if you’re into guys with a criminal pet cat, I doubt your opinions have changed.

  • V-Day Special: Shipping Out

    V-Day Special: Shipping Out

    By Olivia Janis, Taylor Johnson, and Mackenna Stewart

    In the spirit of Valentine’s Day, the Lovett School was shot by the love angel, Cupid. Couples roam the halls, and more people have found new crushes to dream about. 

    In room 219 we set up a date for two people who were nominated as a “ship” in our Valentine’s Day survey. According to Urban Dictionary, the word “ship” means wanting people “to either become an item, kiss, or enter a romantic relationship.” 

    The previous day we asked our nominees if they would be willing to sit in the room with the other person and get asked somewhat personal questions. They bravely agreed. Although this meeting would not quite be considered a “date” in some people’s playbooks, we hoped to enhance the “date” experience by purchasing pizza for their lunch and trying to start small talk. 

    We dimmed the lights, gave them their pizza, and went over the purpose of the “date.”  We told them to sit next to each other, within a square that was taped on the floor. The square was actually there for a history lesson, but it did help keep our potential couple closer together, creating more chemistry and eye contact. 

    The idea of interviewing two people about being “shipped” automatically implies there will be awkwardness. We were lucky enough that our first potential couple knew each other a little bit better than most do, and for our second potential couple to be almost strangers. These two interviews helped us observe the different attraction between two people and what the strengths and weaknesses were for both connections. 

    Before we analyzed the “dates,” we had asked the bachelor, Chad Parker, and the bachelorette, Melissa Darville, questions about themselves. We did this in hopes of improving the knowledge they had about each other, but we were pleasantly surprised to find out they knew more about each other than we thought.

    Our first bachelor, Chad Parker, has gone to Lovett since freshman year. He enjoys thrifting, video gaming, and playing the guitar. Chad has a great and silly personality. When asked what side he begins brushing his teeth on, he passionately said, “If you don’t start with the left side you’re weird.” Chad’s comment immediately caught the attention of his date, Malyssa, as she excitedly agreed. 

    Malyssa has been at Lovett since sixth grade and likes to paint and do puzzles. The two seemed to connect very well. From an observer’s point of view the two were very relaxed and excited to be in each other’s company. 

    Not only were their personalities a main attraction for each other, but the two also shared a lot of the same opinions. For example, we asked them whether they would want joint bank accounts after marriage. Chad deemed this as “necessary” and Malyssa saw it in the same way. She also added that she sees the value in joint bank accounts for paying bills but also said, “You should have your own account in addition.” It’s safe to say that if the two do have a future ahead, finances are under control.  

    It also seems that as of now, both Chad and Malyssa are single and viable options for a great relationship. If the two were to begin dating, the first date would definitely be one for the books. Chad’s ideal first date would be “grabbing food and driving around.” Malyssa agreed and loved the idea of the first date including food and driving around after. Especially if Chipotle is involved. 

    It is very evident that the pair’s first date would not be awkward whatsoever. While Chad and Malyssa both enjoy some of the same music, they were also able to guess each other’s favorite artists. When asked to give each other compliments with major eye contact, the two still remained relaxed. Malyssa said her favorite thing about Chad is that he “has good advice. Like you actually listen to me.” Chad’s favorite thing about Malyssa is that she’s “not a fake person. Whenever someone is talking bad about me, you defend me.” 

    OK. So, we set up the next “date” rather quickly. This one was not on the shipped survey, but Chad and Melissa suggested it themselves.

    Our second bachelor, Cameron Foster, has been at Lovett since Freshman year. He enjoys playing video games and listening to music. Cam had an unusual answer when asked what side he starts brushing his teeth on. He starts in the center which is a very controversial place. Cam said that joint bank accounts after marriage are important so you can have a good level of trust. He also said that it is smart to have your own personal bank account just in case. Cam described himself as “extremely single.” 

    This made his date, Alicia Kim, chuckle. Alicia has been attending Lovett since the 6th grade, and she enjoys watching TV in her free time. Compared to Melissa and Chad’s date the body language was completely different. The conversation was still flowing well but they obviously were a bit uncomfortable. 

    We ended both dates by asking the final question: “Would you guys consider going on a second date?” Melissa and Chad had a very silly response, saying “ cold stone pt.2” Obviously this was a bit of an inside joke, but to us we assume the 2nd date is on. As for Cam and Alicia, Cam was up for part two, but Alicia was a little reluctant but finally said, “We will see.” 

    Overall we think these “dates” were a huge success and strongly encourage those of you who have that special person you want to get to know better to ask them on a date…perhaps to have some pizza in room 219 inside the taped box on the floor.

  • V-Day Special: The Geometry of Love

    V-Day Special: The Geometry of Love

    By Katie Maier

    When Mr. Newman saw a graph of two bisecting lines that a geometry student had drawn on his whiteboard, he said what anyone would say: “that’s kind of romantic.”

    With my limited understanding of geometry (which I haven’t taken since eighth grade), I countered Mr. Newman’s observation, arguing that it’s not romantic because the lines only meet once and then move infinitely away from each other. Newman commented that this would be a great story for the Valentine’s Day issue. 

    Now, Mr. Newman has a habit of turning everything into material for the OnLion (meaning every off-topic conversation in newspaper class is punctuated by him declaring “hey, this could be an article!”). But I must say, I agreed with him as I myself was a bit curious about this particular idea. I decided to talk to the head of the Upper School Math Department Mr. Bob Amar to gain some insight into a few mathematical phenomena might apply to relationships so that I could make my own conclusions on romance math. 

    Perhaps it could serve as the foundation for a new math elective? 

    Parallel lines 

    “Parallel lines,” Mr. Amar explains, “have the same slope and go in the same direction, running alongside each other infinitely but never meeting.”

    This is the classic case of two friends who could be something more. They met as kids in seventh-grade algebra and have been close ever since they learned how to calculate slope. 

    But something always got in the way of their fairytale ending. A heartfelt text that never got sent because of their lagging 3G network (but at least it didn’t intercept the control tower at Hartsfield Jackson airport). A school ban on slither.io that prevented them from bonding over multicolored worms (remember 2016?). In the end, one ended up going to AP Calculus AB, and the other to BC. 

    Now they’ll spend the rest of eternity as two slither.io worms never crossing paths with one another but always, it seems, within reach. 

    Intersecting Lines

    Two lines moving in different directions meet once in a two-dimensional plane. There may be tension before they intersect, and once they meet, as Mr. Amar explains, they move infinitely further away from each other. 

    At one sophomore PDC, two lines intersected for a short but memorable evening (this is a true story). She had seen him in church before and became instantly fascinated with him (and his two brothers, both equally attractive). So when she saw him once again at the dance, she knew she had to make a move. 

    They shared a dance to a cover of “Keep Your Hands to Yourself” by legendary band Air Tight (whose apparently never-ending contract was “airtight” as they have been performing at PDC for longer than the Georgia Satellites have even existed) before parting ways. 

    The pair has yet to see one another since that interaction, but at least they can go about their separate lives knowing they’ll always have PDC. 

    Tangent of a Parabola

    A tangent line intersects a parabola at just one point before they part ways forever, but their relationship is more complex than a simple, linear intersection. 

    “They don’t stay together,” Mr. Amar says, “but [the tangent] is a springboard for the parabola to be even greater than it was before.”

    Tangent lines are like your first love…or maybe the mild crush you once had that helped you figure out your standards. One of my early tangents was a boy in my second-grade class who gave me a love letter on Valentine’s Day which he signed as my secret “atmirer” (with the last three or four letters running down the side of the paper as he obviously hadn’t spaced out his characters properly). It was a sweet gesture which helped me realize that, going forward, I probably need a boyfriend who knows how to spell. 

    In any case, parabola-tangent relationships can help people figure out who they are and what they want out of the future. 

    “Unless,” Mr. Amar counters, “the parabola has a negative slope, in which case it’s a rebound.” (aka Pete Davidson and Kim K…).

    Asymptote

    Two curves, one coming from the positive x-axis and the other from the negative, approach the same asymptote, infinitely drawing closer to one another. 

    These graphs are the Romeos and Juliets of calculus. Star-crossed lovers who never actually cross the border that divide them. Basically, think of every Hallmark-type movie, lop off the last fifteen minutes, and you’ve got an asymptote. 

    Two college students, one the president of Young Republicans and the other the president of Young Democrats. Two small business owners who run rival bagel shops. Asymptotes. 

    It can be hard to visualize the realization of these across-the-tracks relationships, but even infinity has to end somewhere. Mr. Amar assures us that “at some undetermined point in the future, they achieve unity.” (I’m blushing just thinking about it.)

    So it seems that in my interpretation of math romance, relationships have a generally low probability of Hallmark-worthy success. But even the greatest mathematician couldn’t devise a formula for romance, so you might just have to color outside of the lines to find whatever it is you are looking for. 

    Or, at least, get more complicated with your geometry. Consider the Mobius strip. You take a two-sided strip of paper, give it a twist, and tape the ends together. You now have an infinite loop with only one side and one boundary curve. It’s a perfect metaphor for the paradoxical nature of love. Two people…somehow become one.

    You may be surprised, just as I’ve been surprised by, and grown to love, the fact that something as simple as a diagram on a whiteboard can become a (two-and-a-half-page) newspaper article.